“Therefore, a prince, not being able to exercise this virtue of liberality in such a way that it is recognized, except to his cost, if he is wise he ought not to fear the reputation of being mean.”
I learned this from seeing my own masters ruined by their gifts. When you give too much, you must tax your people and become hated; when you save, you keep your strength and defend yourself. Be stingy so that you may rule without burdening those who obey you.